Welcome to Lead Different. This is the final issue for the year bringing together ideas from the past six months, with a focus on insights that will shape how you move through 2026.

Lead Different will be back in mid-January next year with a fresh look and some changes to the editorial format.

Until then, wishing you a restorative break over the Xmas period and some space to reset before 2026 begins.

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In shared pursuit of better communication in tech, Edith.

Reputation & Trust – how to earn trust or get it back

Top 5 Insights To Improve Trust In 2026

  1. Beware The Cost of Speed
    In B2B tech, moving fast without clarity, quality, or governance erodes trust quickly, especially when shortcuts show up in security, QA, or unexplained AI features. In 2026, the advantage will sit with teams that prioritise velocity over speed. That is, clear direction, visible risk management, and communication that keeps stakeholders with you as you move.

  2. Your Evidence Gap Is Your Biggest Trust Risk
    In tech, buyers aren’t just comparing products; they’re managing risk to their budgets, reputations, and careers, which means trust is earned through evidence, not claims. A key communications priority for Q1 2026 should be a clear execution plan to gather more proof of capability, much faster than most teams do today.

  3. Co-Create To Earn Trust & Adoption
    Do you need close collaboration with users to design innovative products that are adopted? Not always, the iPhone proves that, but in most cases, involving customers and others builds trust and leads to faster, more durable product adoption - and could give you a real edge leading into 2026. Read this for ideas on ways to collaborate.

  4. Show The Path From A to B to C = Success
    As AI and automation take on more decisions, people want to see the path from your intentions, actions and outcomes, not just communicate the final result. In 2026, leaders who explain how decisions were made will earn more trust than those who curate results using selective data and polished narratives that ‘feel good’ but signify little.

  5. Master The Trust Radar or Risk It All
    Trust is shaped by four things: Empathy, Transparency, Expertise, and Commitment, and failing one, weakens the whole. In 2026, leaders should pressure-test decisions and communications against all four to avoid blind spots that quietly erode trust.

Narrative Power – The leadership story playbook

Top 5 Ideas for Better Storytelling in B2B IT

If you want to move people to act, here are my top 5 storytelling ideas of 2025:

  1. Stories that Stick Follow A Clear Structure
    Storytelling isn’t so much art, it’s structure: Who’s involved? Where and when? What’s the big idea? The key event? What was the struggle and peak tension? How did it change things for the better?

  2. Use the Before-and-After Shortcut
    In B2B tech, Contrast is the fastest way to make change feel real: show life before the problem and life after the solution, grounded in moments people recognise.

  3. Capture Stories in Small Moments
    Every thank-you note, win, or fast save is raw narrative material, and teams that collect these moments build credibility faster than those chasing big case studies alone.

  4. ‘Why’ Is Overrated. Show the ‘How’
    Buyers trust detailed stories that show how you deliver results like day-in-the-life moments, scenarios, and specific proof, not abstract purpose statements.

  5. Real Stories Win. Polished Stories Fail
    In 2026, trust will favour leaders who show the full messy arc – stumbles, trade-offs, and course corrections – because credibility is built through genuinely lived experiences, not sanitised narratives.

Influence & Framing – Small moves, big impact

Top 7 Influence & Framing Tips

  1. Control the Frame – or Compete Blind
    Framing isn’t spin. It’s how you shape meaning. E.g. Frame your company as an accountable partner with clear commitments, a co-creator of solutions, a category leader, or a force for good, and you change how customers and investors respond.

  2. Use ‘Because’ – Even When the Reason is Obvious
    According to persuasion researcher Robert Cialdini, people are significantly more likely to say yes when you give a reason, even a trivial one. Adding ‘because’ triggers our instinct to justify decisions. It’s simple, but powerful.

  3. Give People An Out And They’ll Opt-in
    Giving people a clear option to say no increases buy-in by lowering pressure and respecting autonomy. In 2026, leaders rolling out change will achieve better results by explicitly allowing choice rather than forcing compliance, which triggers resistance.

  4. The Authority Trap: When Expert Tone Backfires
    Sounding too certain, too technical, or too ‘senior’ can alienate your audience. People follow clear ideas, not complexity. Influence grows when leaders show openness, not omniscience. Aim for confident humility – expertise without ego.

  5. Use Micro-Commitments To Build Momentum
    Influence starts small. Getting agreement on one clear next step opens the door for more. E.g., Ask for thinking, not decisions: “Can we explore this?” not “Will you approve this?” Micro-yeses build buy-in, reduce overwhelm, and keep things moving.

  6. Reframing Resistance as Input
    When someone pushes back, they’re not always resisting you; they’re resisting how your story feels to them. That’s insight, not friction. Great influencers don’t counter resistance with defence. They lean in and ask: “What would make this easier for you?” That one question reframes tension as collaboration.

  7. Shape The Language, Shape The Decision
    “Control the language, and you control the debate,” said George Lakoff, political linguist. Framing shapes how people think, not just what they hear. In B2B tech, a rollout framed as a “platform for growth” rather than a “system replacement” shifts perception from cost to value. Smart framing doesn’t change the work; it changes how stakeholders choose, fund, and fight for it.

In 2026, leaders who shape language early shape perception - and the decisions that follow.

Crucial Conversations – Navigating high-stakes comms

High-Stakes Conservations To Carry Into 2026

  • Ask Before You Argue
    When tensions rise, our instinct is to explain or defend. But asking a calm, curious question can instantly defuse defensiveness. Try: “Can you walk me through how you see it?”

  • Name the Emotion Without the Drama
    When someone is frustrated or upset, ignoring it fuels tension. But calmly naming the emotion, “I can see this is frustrating”, helps them feel seen. It’s a simple move that de-escalates and disarms.

  • Pause. Then Respond.
    In tense moments, rushing to answer (defend, explain, correct) risks saying something you’ll regret. Instead, pause. Breathe. Give the silence just a beat longer than feels comfortable. Then slowly answer.

  • Disagree Without Dominating
    Disagreement isn’t the problem – how you do it is. In B2B tech, challenge is essential, but too often it turns into a status play. The wrong tone shuts people down. Curious framing keeps the conversation open. E.g., “Here’s a different take” vs “You’re missing the point.”

  • How To Calm Things Down
    When someone’s angry or has lost faith, resist the urge to explain or defend; it fuels the fire. Instead, start with a pause and one grounding question: “It sounds like this really matters to you. What feels most unfair right now?” You acknowledge emotion without agreeing or arguing. The worst thing to say? “Calm down.” It never works.

  • Crucial Questions To Get Ahead of Next Year
    It’s time to prepare for the major questions tech leaders will face in 2026: Ethics in AI & trust – bias, transparency, rights and mental health as AI becomes pervasive. Tech spend & value – with budgets under pressure, leaders must explain not just what they’re spending, but why it matters to investors, partners and the business. Sustainability of tech operations and supply chains – ethical sourcing and data sovereignty are now board-level concerns, requiring tough conversations with regulators, customers and employees. These aren’t optional extras; they’re the conversations your stakeholders will demand. Are you prepared?

Internal Comms – How to connect, not just inform

The 2026 Playbook for Internal Communication

2026 will bring workforce shifts that many organisations would rather avoid discussing. Still, it must be done - so here’s how to do it right:

  1. The message can’t be sugar-coated, but it must be human.
    Employees don’t expect comfort stories; they expect honesty delivered with respect.

  2. Communicate early, explain the why, and show the path forward.
    Whether that path includes reskilling, redeployment, or exit, clarity reduces anxiety far more than silence.

  3. Balance empathy with confidence.
    Acknowledge uncertainty without amplifying fear, and avoid over-reassurance you can’t sustain.

  4. Say the hard thing once, then repeat it consistently.
    Mixed messages erode trust faster than clear, consistent tough news.

  5. Give managers language, not just information.
    Equip them with talking points, FAQs, and guidance so messages don’t fracture at the frontline.

  6. Name what won’t change as clearly as what will.
    Stability matters during disruption, and people listen closely for what’s being protected.

  7. Close the loop.
    Follow up on what you said would happen, even if the answer is “we don’t know yet.”

The real question for 2026 is whether your communication will stabilise people through change, or push them into cynicism, disengagement, and reduced performance.

Getting Clear – Communication that cuts through 

Five Clarity Ideas Worth Keeping

  1. Ditch the cliches (i.e., innovative solutions, cutting-edge capability) because while they sound impressive, they mean nothing. Get specific, so instead of saying ‘trusted partner’, show how you deliver.

  2. Stop using meaningless adjectives like ‘seamless’, ‘scalable’, and ‘secure’. Say what your product/solution actually does and for whom.

  3. Ask simple questions for big reveals. Want to dig deeper without coming across as interrogative. Say, “Tell me more about that”, and “What else?”

  4. Work to be concise: Long-winded presenters and speakers dilute their message and influence. Brevity isn’t about saying less for the sake of it; it's about communicating complex ideas succinctly, which is also a sign of a strategic thinker.

  5. Clear communication starts with clear thinking, and that work happens before you speak or write. In 2026, leaders who take the time to test ideas, strip away half-formed thinking, and land on a single clear point will communicate with far more impact than those who rely on sounding ‘smart.’

Strategic Insights – For influence-savvy leaders

Deep Dive: For something extra, check out the latest long form editorial: Fear & Loathing in Employee Feedback - Feedback Ignored Becomes Toxic. When Acted On, It Can Drive Change (5-minute read).

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